It’s such a nerve-racking situation getting to know somebody new.
when you are genuinely spending a lot of time with somebody brand new, there are a lot of moving parts and things to figure out.
One of the major concerns you run into in a new relationship is sharing compatibilities. do you even like the same things? I recently have been seeing somebody casually and things have been going really well. My pal and I get along great, have a lot of fun together and there’s definitely chemistry. For the most part, we’ve been super compatible. However, the other night there was a major snafu. I decided to stay over because it got too late, and was getting situated in bed when she said the words that make me shudder. “I just use a sheet, it gets tepid in here at night.” Oh no. If there’s one thing that I can’t stand, it’s being too moderate at night. I am completely obsessed with having appealing, frigid and fresh air pumped into my bedroom as I sleep. I want to cuddle down into the moderate blankets and brace against the Ice Cold Air Conditioning. The last thing that I want is to be sweaty and sprawled out against the sweltering mattress. I really can’t sleep at night if it’s not below a particular temperature. In the summertime I definitely need my powerful air conditioner unit by my side. I could so tepid and humid, let alone the extra heat of having another body in the bed. You better believe, she spent that tepid Summer night on the couch so my wonderful friend and I could genuinely sleep.