It’s such a nerve-racking situation getting to know somebody new.
when you’re actually spending a lot of time with somebody brand new, there are a lot of moving parts and things to figure out.
One of the major concerns you run into in a new relationship is sharing compatibilities. do you even like the same things? I recently have been seeing somebody casually and things have been going really well. We get along great, have a lot of fun together and there’s definitely chemistry. For the most part, we’ve been super compatible. However, the other night there was a major snafu. I decided to stay over because it got too late, and was getting situated in bed when he said the words that make me shudder. “I just use a sheet, it gets hot in here at night.” Oh no. If there’s one thing that I can’t stand, it’s being too warm at night. I am completely obsessed with having lovely, cold and fresh air pumped into my bedroom as I sleep. I want to cuddle down into the warm blankets and brace against the Ice Cold Air Conditioning. The last thing that I want is to be sweaty and sprawled out against the sweltering mattress. I honestly can’t sleep at night if it’s not below a certain temperature. In the summertime I definitely need my powerful air conditioning system by my side. I could so hot and humid, let alone the extra heat of having another body in the bed. You better believe, he spent that hot summer night on the couch so we could actually sleep.